Wednesday, March 3

I'm Proud 2 b a Woman...





“The origin of a child is a mother, a woman… She shows a man what loving, caring and sharing is all about..” said Sushmita Sen, India’s first Miss Universe, in the final round of the contest. An answer which was greeted with tremendous applause and which probably, led her to win the crown.

Indeed a woman’s essence lies in her innate ability to care, love and sacrifice for the other. She plays an all-enveloping character of a mother, daughter, wife and sister as a friend, nurturer, guide and partner from time to time. Emotional and vulnerable, sometimes erratic, sometimes serene, she displays a wonderful range of emotions from being patient to being extremely courageous in times of crisis.

There are lots of examples we can take to show “What Women Power Is”.

The steady change in their position can be highlighted by looking at what has been achieved by women in the country:

• 1879: John Elliot Drinkwater Bethune established the Bethune School in 1849, which developed into the Bethune College in 1879, thus becoming the first women's college in India.
• 1883: Chandramukhi Basu and Kadambini Ganguly became the first female graduates of India and the British Empire.
• 1886: Kadambini Ganguly and Anandi Gopal Joshi became the first women from India to be trained in Western medicine.
• 1905: Suzanne RD Tata becomes the first Indian woman to drive a car.
• 1916: The first women's university, SNDT Women's University, was founded on June 2, 1916 by the social reformer Dhondo Keshav Karve with just five students.
• 1917: Annie Besant became the first female president of the Indian National Congress.
• 1919: For her distinguished social service, Pandita Ramabai became the first Indian woman to be awarded the Kaiser-i-Hind by the British Raj.
• 1925: Sarojini Naidu became the first Indian born female president of the Indian National Congress
• 1927: The All India Women's Conference was founded.
• 1944: Asima Chatterjee became the first Indian woman to be conferred the Doctorate of Science by an Indian university
• 1947: On August 15, 1947, following independence, Sarojini Naidu became the governor of the United Provinces, and in the process became India's first woman governor.
• 1951: Prem Mathur becomes the first Indian women commercial pilot of the Deccan Airways
• 1953: Vijaya Lakshmi Pandit became the first woman (and first Indian) president of the United Nations General Assembly
• 1959: Anna Chandy becomes the first Indian woman judge of a High Court (Kerala High Court)
• 1963:Sucheta Kriplani became the Chief Minister of Uttar Pradesh, the first woman to hold that position in any Indian state.
• 1966: Captain Durga Banerjee becomes the first Indian woman pilot of the state airline, Indian Airlines.
• 1966: Kamaladevi Chattopadhyay wins Ramon Magsaysay award for community leadership.
• 1966: Indira Gandhi becomes the first woman Prime Minister of India
• 1970: Kamaljit Sandhu becomes the first Indian woman to win a Gold in the Asian Games
• 1972: Kiran Bedi becomes the first female recruit to join the Indian Police Service.
• 1979: Mother Teresa wins the Nobel Peace Prize, becoming the first Indian female citizen to do so.
• 1984: On May 23, Bachendri Pal became the first Indian woman to climb Mount Everest.
• 1989: Justice M. Fathima Beevi becomes the first woman judge of the Supreme Court of India.
• 1997: Kalpana Chawla becomes the first India-born woman to go into space.
• 1992: Priya Jhingan becomes the first lady cadet to join the Indian Army (later commissioned on March 6, 1993)
• 1994: Harita Kaur Deol becomes the first Indian woman pilot in the Indian Air Force (IAF), on a solo flight.
• 2000: Karnam Malleswari became the first Indian woman to win an Olympic medal (bronze medal in the 2000 Summer Olympics at Sydney)
• 2002: Lakshmi Sahgal became the first Indian woman to run for the post of President of India.
• 2004: Punita Arora became the first woman in the Indian Army to don the highest rank of Lieutenant General.
• 2007: Gayatri Chakravorty Spivak became the first Indian woman to be appointed as University Professor at an Ivy League university (Columbia University).
• 2007: Pratibha Patil becomes the first woman President of India.
• 2008: Renu Khator became the first India born woman to lead a major American university, the University of Houston.
• 2009: Meira Kumar became the first woman Speaker of Lok Sabha, the lower house in Indian Parliament.


Tormented and subjugated throughout all times and ages, women have fought their way through exploitation, harassment, and have managed to secure their rights in the public domain. In spite of continuing exploitation and injustice against women both in the domestic and work sector today, several milestones have been achieved in terms of education, freedom of choice and liberty, equality etc.With growing literacy and financial independence women feel more empowered today to assert their right to a life of dignity and self worth. The International Women's Day celebrated on 8th March is a universal day for all women around the world. It endows them with a sense of honour, dignity and self respect for being the person that they are. This day marks a celebration of the economic, social, cultural and political achievements made by women over the years.








Tuesday, March 2

Love Story 2009

Introducing:

Actor: Jiten Nayak (Jitu / Jeet)

Actress: Surabhi Nayak (Sony / Suvi)

Helping Crew: Jyoti (Nathkhat :D), Uncle, Aunty, Mom, Dad along with my Family (Itz a small joint family of 13 Members).

Some times when I sit idle and think I feel as if I m dreaming. It was all just as “MY DREAM CAME TRUE”
** (I will say U what my dream was.)

**You're in my dreams every night.
You never skip a night
You don't steal spotlight,
But you are always there

I've never seen you in real life,
Only when my eyes are shut,
I want to see you,
When my eyes are open

I want to find out if dreams do come true.
This is the perfect test.
So if dreams do come true....

You will be my guy,
Not just my dream boy,

If dreams come true..
I'll be in your arms

Sooo...come out, come out where ever you are dream boy....
You are the one.

I never knew that i will get DREAM BOY so easily. :D

There was a tragic change in my life on 1st November, 2008. 1st scrap at a very famous social site “ORKUT”,was sent by Jeet. I exactly don’t remember when he sent me a friend request. And we both were not knowing each other before. It was accidently by Jeet’s sister JYOTI who saw me in his recent visitors list on his account and thought that I might be a friend of Jeet.

When I saw the friend request, I ignored. Thinking somebody has just sent me a request after seeing my profile, without knowing me. One day I was looking at pupils profiles who sent me the friend request and I was shocked seeing aunties (my mother-in-law) photo at his profile. After that I came to know that JEET is my mother’s childhood friend’s son. And I added him as a friend and slowly we started scraping each other...

I still remember for the first time when I started the conversation with him, I designated as “bhaiya” …… ha ha a ha ha :D (Isnt it Funny! The person to whom U r calling bhaiya today and tomorrow u fall in love with him and decide 2 make him as ur life partner. : ) )

Gradually we started conversation through Gtalk, Yahoo Messenger, scraped each other, sent mail to each other, shared lot of photos, shared lots of personal feelings & bla…bla… bla…. Jeet always used to ask me for my personal contact number & I never gave him my number (still I couldn’t understand why I did so! ;-).)

At last on 8th February, 2009 I gave him my personal contact number. And on the same day I received a SMS “PALKO ME KUCH KAID


SAPNE HAIN, KUCH BEGANE KUCH APNE HAIN. NA JANE KYA KASHISH HAI IN KHAYALON ME APP DUR HOKE BHI KITNE APNE HAIN”. After that we both shared SMS… but we both were waiting to be get called for the 1st time...

At last on 11th February, 2009 I made myself bold enough to call him. Although we don’t remember the exact time, but it was about 2130 hours when I called him. Jeet picked my call after 3-4 rings. And U know what he did after picking my call! He started laughing like a mad aur mere ko shaqh hua kahin wrong number koi mental asylum (RANCHI) ko to nahi lag gaya…. 8-D. After that hamare beech bahut baten hoti reheti thi…..

“ Jeet always sing a song :

Yeh Tumhari Meri Baathein, Hamesha Yuhin... Chalti Rahe..

Yeh Hamari Mulakate, Hamesha Yuhin... Chalti Rahe..

Beete Yuhin Apne Saare Din Raaat

Baaton Se Nikalti Rahe Nayi Baaat

Phir Wahin Baathein Leke Geet Koi... Hum Likhe..

Jo Dil Ko Haan Sab Ke Dil Ko.. Chu Le..

Baathein Suron Mein Yuhin Pighalti Rahen..

Baathein Geeton Mein Yuhin Dalti Rahen..

Oooo..Na Na Na Na Na Na…Oooo.... “


On 19th April, 2009 JEET with his parents came our home at about 1100 hrs. For the first time we saw each other (Physically). Pata nahi kab kaise hum ek dusre ko pasand kiye aur hamare parents ko hum ne positive reply de diya… (Still remember the situation :D how emotional our parents became that day)

Hum dono to khub phone pe baten karte the, chat bhi karte the… par ek dusre ko apna pyar eshar karne se darte the ;). It was 2nd May, 2009 exactly at 01:54 AM, though yahoo messenger we admitted “I LOVE YOU” :D. Yahoo Messenger users might know about the IMEnvironmets!! We admitted through Doodle environment :D

On 1st July, 2009 we exchanged rings… bas hamari kahani abb tak ke liye kuch aise hin hai…

Further Story Is A MYSTRY :D …

Everyday that passes
I feel that I Love you more
I feel thankful for the times we spend together
I know and feel that you are my perfect companion
And friend
And I'd Choose you again...
And again...
And again!

Naturally we have difficult moments
But I would not give up even these
Because It's a part of the journey of love
That we've been on
I want to travel by your side...
Forever

Because I Love You

SuVi---