First Incident can never be replaced...

First is always first. It may be your first cry, first smile, first school, first college, first fight, or it may be first crush, first hug{with your loved one}, first kiss....(sounds interesting isn’t it!) : ) Whatever happens with you for the first time it puts a trace in your life & “ITS UNFORGATABLE”. If you go through some good experience for the first time it always bring smile:-] on your face, if it’s a bad it always make you unhappy:-[. Anyhow everybody has some hidden treasures of feeling inside them, today I m writing about my ‘HIDDEN TREASURES’. Hope you (my reader’s obviously) will enjoy it.

Let me start from my birth. (Data been collected from my mother, dad, chacha n others of my family & frnds)

MY 1ST CRY: Nothing new in it, every new born baby cries. But my mother said I didn’t cry for 1^st 2-3 minutes I took birth. Nurses along with my mother was got tensed ;)

MY 1ST SMILE: I DONT REMEMBER. :D

MY 1ST b-day: I was only 21 day’s old when dad threw a grand party. Mom says I got lots of gifts among them almost all were dress which I could hardly wear coz I was growing like a balloon after every night. ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL :D

MY 1st PLAY: Normally said, girls play with doll, but I used to play with my Milk bottle (shocked!!!!) ha ha ha .... Mom said I used to drink 5-7 litres of milk per day. The whole day I needed my bottle in my mouth, as soon as I was finishing it I used to throw at a distance and BOTTLE KA TO “RAM RAM SATYA HAI” ;) Doing this I used to enjoy a lot.

My 1st Toffee: When I was only 2 yrs old at that time we were staying in a very remote area. There was no current supply, no telephone line, no shopping complex etc. My uncle (chachu) during that time was taking his training @ Sunabeda (famous for HAL). He used to bring me LOLY POP. (Need a tym machine, wanna live that moments again : D )

I never used to eat them, used to throw then all in drain, used to dig mud and cover my lolypop with mud ;)

My 1st School: I was only 3 yrs old when my chachu along with my mom brought me to Sunabeda so that I can join a good school. Vyomayana Samasta Vidyalaya (VSV).

School ka naam itna bada hai ki kya karun I was unable to pronounce it. Till today I can’t do it properly LOL (Sorry VSVians but it’s the fact :D )

My 1st class teacher: Miss.Philips our Philips Madam was so sweet, long, slim, fair & beautiful lady. She was our class teacher when we were in LKG. And its natural LKG kids make lot of noice, cry for every silly things, but she was so kind and lovable with her sweet voice she used to attract towards her. I MISS U MADAM HOPE I CAN MEET U SOME WHERE THROUGH OUT MY LIFE

MY 1st Participation: I was in STD-III when I participated for Drill held on Republic day on the ground. (I didn’t know who the chief guest was.) I was wearing WHITE SKIRT, WHITE SLEEVE SHIRT, MAROON SCHOOL TIE, RED SCHOOL BELT, ORANGE COLOUR RIBBON (as I was in ORANGE TEAM), WHITE CANVAS SHOE, WHITE SOCKS, and A BAMBOO which was wrapped with ORANGE RIBBON (creating a WAVE of ORANGE colour).

About 200 students performed in front of all the people in the ground. Everyone sitting in the gallery was looking tiny from the ground :). In short: “AMAZING PERPORMANCE”. 1 month of rigorous training after class hours. I continued to do this for 3 consecutive years and was enjoying a lot.

MY 1st punishment: We were in STD-I, me & Sudipa were playing in out rock play ground. The ground was full of rock, small stones, and almost the whole ground looked RED. Just while playing when we both were throwing stones here and there, there a girl was sitting who was senior to us (I don’t remember her details). Unknowing that stone fell on her, she was not bleeding exactly but .... : ( we cldn’t understand what to do!!!!! Hum jaise-taise bhag gaye wahan se jaan bacha ke....

Just after lunch we were in our respective classes, teacher came in and was taking our afternoon session attendance peon came into my section first asked “SURABHI NAYAK, HEAD MISTRESS IS CALLING YOU” mera to dimag fir gaya...... :O

When i reached her cabin i found Sudipa along with that Senior Girl. My Head Mistress was standing with red eyes, beautiful pink saree (let me say abt her :D Height about 5 feet, Weight about 70-75 Kgs, fair in colour, two of her teeth were out like a Squirrel, SMILE meant for her like a sin : ( we never saw her smiling :D) was holding a stick in her hand. She didn’t ask any thing to both of us. Consecutively she banged me 3 times on my calf muscles. : ( Same procedure with Sudipa too :D

(frnds pls don’t laugh at both of us, we cried a lot after that : ( still remember how our parents scolded us. )

My 1st bicycle: I was in STD-IV when my chachu on my B-Day gifted me a BSA- LADY BIRD (MARRON COLOUR) I still miss my Bicycle ride on HAL roads : )

Waise bachpan ki bahut baten ho gayi, thoda bade hone ki baat batati hun... :D

My 1st college: In year 2004 I joined Roland Institute of Computer & Management Studies to have my BCA. The environment was so clumsy no proper class rooms, no well arranged furniture’s, no well trained faculties (except some) really at that time I missed my Golden School Day’s. (quite bad experience)

But sare kaami NIST me pure ho gaye..... ( I NJOYED NIST ) :D

MY 1st Bike: In 2005, June Chachu n me went to bring a new sizzling SCOOTY PEP. Unfortunately I didn’t get my favourite colour which suits best on PEP. After that I brought GREEN. Abhi bhi chal rahi hai meri gadi par haan kabhi kabhi thoda doctor ke pass usko lena padta hai.... :D

Are yaar bahut hua likhna.. brain me bahut dabav dalne ke baad yeh sab yaad aya hai.... aur kiya likhun??? Chalo let me write something interesting : )

MY 1st Crush: I was in STD-VII when I had my 1st crush (contend suppressed)

My 1st date: Couples go for a date before engagement but I went for a date just after a month of our engagement : ) we had a long drive @ vishakapatnam, had coffee @ a resort..... (content suppressed **)

** NOT SUITABLE FOR MINORS :D

Now lot many things, events are about to come I hope I could write soon...

Hope my story didn’t bore you friends: D

I'm Proud 2 b a Woman...

“The origin of a child is a mother, a woman… She shows a man what loving, caring and sharing is all about..” said Sushmita Sen, India’s first Miss Universe, in the final round of the contest. An answer which was greeted with tremendous applause and which probably, led her to win the crown.

Indeed a woman’s essence lies in her innate ability to care, love and sacrifice for the other. She plays an all-enveloping character of a mother, daughter, wife and sister as a friend, nurturer, guide and partner from time to time. Emotional and vulnerable, sometimes erratic, sometimes serene, she displays a wonderful range of emotions from being patient to being extremely courageous in times of crisis.

There are lots of examples we can take to show “What Women Power Is”.

The steady change in their position can be highlighted by looking at what has been achieved by women in the country:

• 1879: John Elliot Drinkwater Bethune established the Bethune School in 1849, which developed into the Bethune College in 1879, thus becoming the first women's college in India.
• 1883: Chandramukhi Basu and Kadambini Ganguly became the first female graduates of India and the British Empire.
• 1886: Kadambini Ganguly and Anandi Gopal Joshi became the first women from India to be trained in Western medicine.
• 1905: Suzanne RD Tata becomes the first Indian woman to drive a car.
• 1916: The first women's university, SNDT Women's University, was founded on June 2, 1916 by the social reformer Dhondo Keshav Karve with just five students.
• 1917: Annie Besant became the first female president of the Indian National Congress.
• 1919: For her distinguished social service, Pandita Ramabai became the first Indian woman to be awarded the Kaiser-i-Hind by the British Raj.
• 1925: Sarojini Naidu became the first Indian born female president of the Indian National Congress
• 1927: The All India Women's Conference was founded.
• 1944: Asima Chatterjee became the first Indian woman to be conferred the Doctorate of Science by an Indian university
• 1947: On August 15, 1947, following independence, Sarojini Naidu became the governor of the United Provinces, and in the process became India's first woman governor.
• 1951: Prem Mathur becomes the first Indian women commercial pilot of the Deccan Airways
• 1953: Vijaya Lakshmi Pandit became the first woman (and first Indian) president of the United Nations General Assembly
• 1959: Anna Chandy becomes the first Indian woman judge of a High Court (Kerala High Court)
• 1963:Sucheta Kriplani became the Chief Minister of Uttar Pradesh, the first woman to hold that position in any Indian state.
• 1966: Captain Durga Banerjee becomes the first Indian woman pilot of the state airline, Indian Airlines.
• 1966: Kamaladevi Chattopadhyay wins Ramon Magsaysay award for community leadership.
• 1966: Indira Gandhi becomes the first woman Prime Minister of India
• 1970: Kamaljit Sandhu becomes the first Indian woman to win a Gold in the Asian Games
• 1972: Kiran Bedi becomes the first female recruit to join the Indian Police Service.
• 1979: Mother Teresa wins the Nobel Peace Prize, becoming the first Indian female citizen to do so.
• 1984: On May 23, Bachendri Pal became the first Indian woman to climb Mount Everest.
• 1989: Justice M. Fathima Beevi becomes the first woman judge of the Supreme Court of India.
• 1997: Kalpana Chawla becomes the first India-born woman to go into space.
• 1992: Priya Jhingan becomes the first lady cadet to join the Indian Army (later commissioned on March 6, 1993)
• 1994: Harita Kaur Deol becomes the first Indian woman pilot in the Indian Air Force (IAF), on a solo flight.
• 2000: Karnam Malleswari became the first Indian woman to win an Olympic medal (bronze medal in the 2000 Summer Olympics at Sydney)
• 2002: Lakshmi Sahgal became the first Indian woman to run for the post of President of India.
• 2004: Punita Arora became the first woman in the Indian Army to don the highest rank of Lieutenant General.
• 2007: Gayatri Chakravorty Spivak became the first Indian woman to be appointed as University Professor at an Ivy League university (Columbia University).
• 2007: Pratibha Patil becomes the first woman President of India.
• 2008: Renu Khator became the first India born woman to lead a major American university, the University of Houston.
• 2009: Meira Kumar became the first woman Speaker of Lok Sabha, the lower house in Indian Parliament.


Tormented and subjugated throughout all times and ages, women have fought their way through exploitation, harassment, and have managed to secure their rights in the public domain. In spite of continuing exploitation and injustice against women both in the domestic and work sector today, several milestones have been achieved in terms of education, freedom of choice and liberty, equality etc.With growing literacy and financial independence women feel more empowered today to assert their right to a life of dignity and self worth. The International Women's Day celebrated on 8th March is a universal day for all women around the world. It endows them with a sense of honour, dignity and self respect for being the person that they are. This day marks a celebration of the economic, social, cultural and political achievements made by women over the years.

Love Story 2009

Introducing:

Actor: Jiten Nayak (Jitu / Jeet)

Actress: Surabhi Nayak (Sony / Suvi)

Helping Crew: Jyoti (Nathkhat :D), Uncle, Aunty, Mom, Dad along with my Family (Itz a small joint family of 13 Members).

Some times when I sit idle and think I feel as if I m dreaming. It was all just as “MY DREAM CAME TRUE”
** (I will say U what my dream was.)

**You're in my dreams every night.
You never skip a night
You don't steal spotlight,
But you are always there

I've never seen you in real life,
Only when my eyes are shut,
I want to see you,
When my eyes are open

I want to find out if dreams do come true.
This is the perfect test.
So if dreams do come true....

You will be my guy,
Not just my dream boy,

If dreams come true..
I'll be in your arms

Sooo...come out, come out where ever you are dream boy....
You are the one.

I never knew that i will get DREAM BOY so easily. :D

There was a tragic change in my life on 1st November, 2008. 1st scrap at a very famous social site “ORKUT”,was sent by Jeet. I exactly don’t remember when he sent me a friend request. And we both were not knowing each other before. It was accidently by Jeet’s sister JYOTI who saw me in his recent visitors list on his account and thought that I might be a friend of Jeet.

When I saw the friend request, I ignored. Thinking somebody has just sent me a request after seeing my profile, without knowing me. One day I was looking at pupils profiles who sent me the friend request and I was shocked seeing aunties (my mother-in-law) photo at his profile. After that I came to know that JEET is my mother’s childhood friend’s son. And I added him as a friend and slowly we started scraping each other...

I still remember for the first time when I started the conversation with him, I designated as “bhaiya” …… ha ha a ha ha :D (Isnt it Funny! The person to whom U r calling bhaiya today and tomorrow u fall in love with him and decide 2 make him as ur life partner. : ) )

Gradually we started conversation through Gtalk, Yahoo Messenger, scraped each other, sent mail to each other, shared lot of photos, shared lots of personal feelings & bla…bla… bla…. Jeet always used to ask me for my personal contact number & I never gave him my number (still I couldn’t understand why I did so! ;-).)

At last on 8^th February, 2009 I gave him my personal contact number. And on the same day I received a SMS “PALKO ME KUCH KAID

SAPNE HAIN, KUCH BEGANE KUCH APNE HAIN. NA JANE KYA KASHISH HAI IN KHAYALON ME APP DUR HOKE BHI KITNE APNE HAIN”. After that we both shared SMS… but we both were waiting to be get called for the 1st time...

At last on 11^th February, 2009 I made myself bold enough to call him. Although we don’t remember the exact time, but it was about 2130 hours when I called him. Jeet picked my call after 3-4 rings. And U know what he did after picking my call! He started laughing like a mad aur mere ko shaqh hua kahin wrong number koi mental asylum (RANCHI) ko to nahi lag gaya…. 8-D. After that hamare beech bahut baten hoti reheti thi…..

“ Jeet always sing a song :

Yeh Tumhari Meri Baathein, Hamesha Yuhin... Chalti Rahe..

Yeh Hamari Mulakate, Hamesha Yuhin... Chalti Rahe..

Beete Yuhin Apne Saare Din Raaat

Baaton Se Nikalti Rahe Nayi Baaat

Phir Wahin Baathein Leke Geet Koi... Hum Likhe..

Jo Dil Ko Haan Sab Ke Dil Ko.. Chu Le..

Baathein Suron Mein Yuhin Pighalti Rahen..

Baathein Geeton Mein Yuhin Dalti Rahen..

Oooo..Na Na Na Na Na Na…Oooo.... “

On 19^th April, 2009 JEET with his parents came our home at about 1100 hrs. For the first time we saw each other (Physically). Pata nahi kab kaise hum ek dusre ko pasand kiye aur hamare parents ko hum ne positive reply de diya… (Still remember the situation :D how emotional our parents became that day)

Hum dono to khub phone pe baten karte the, chat bhi karte the… par ek dusre ko apna pyar eshar karne se darte the ;). It was 2^nd May, 2009 exactly at 01:54 AM, though yahoo messenger we admitted “I LOVE YOU” :D. Yahoo Messenger users might know about the IMEnvironmets!! We admitted through Doodle environment :D

On 1^st July, 2009 we exchanged rings… bas hamari kahani abb tak ke liye kuch aise hin hai…

Further Story Is A MYSTRY :D …

Everyday that passes
I feel that I Love you more
I feel thankful for the times we spend together
I know and feel that you are my perfect companion
And friend
And I'd Choose you again...
And again...
And again!

Naturally we have difficult moments
But I would not give up even these
Because It's a part of the journey of love
That we've been on
I want to travel by your side...
Forever

Because I Love You

SuVi---